Ok, If you like to be called "special" then get the book "Someone Special Like Me." But if you don't like being called "special," then try the book "Don't Call Me Special." Matthew says he is special and you can call him special.. just don't call him late for supper.. yea, he said that.
Now for the parent of children with special needs I recommend the Child with Special Needs and More than a Mom. I have not read either but I have heard they are great books I would love to get one of these, or both for christmas.
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